BM is not crazy part 1
Yes, I stalk my DH ex-wife. I never did, really… it never crossed my mind. But after she abandoned her kids, I did… why??? I’m not sure… maybe to see what kind of a woman gives up her kids the way she did. She has a blog she used to keep from 2006 to about 2014. She is constantly on twitter posting. What I find funny is how she is constantly posting about her ex-husband, my DH. So, I’m going to do a series of blogs about these posts. Why because I really want to respond to her say you are a liar … and basically if he’s so bad why did you give up the kids to this awful man.
Her latest comment on line is the following:
I Always wondered how my ex had so many long-term girlfriends after our divorce, given that he rarely was a prt of the kids lives (& didn't make child support priority) In the back of my mind I think I knew it was bc I was painted as "the crazy ex-wife who left for no reason" ...
Let's see how long she waited to start dating after the divorce. I have gathered this iformation from her many blogs online.
In July of 2009 she left my DH in TN to go visit her parents in MD. But while there she let my DH know she is leaving him and moving in with her parents. My DH was left with an entire home with furniture and things to pack up and figure out what to do next. So that he could be close to his kids he quit his job and moved to MD. At this point they agreed to a 50/50 custody with the kids. This was a verbal agreement that was made between them because at this point, they are not divorced yet.
Another comment from the previous:
My ex kept trying to prove that I'd cheated. He saw me tweeting to someone (who was a random twitter guy) & was sure he was my "lover". He found someone with the same name and went to this other random person's home WITH THE KIDS IN THE CAR with him! Fortunetly, he wasn't home.
But then guess what? In May of 2010 she moved in with a man she met on Twitter. Yup moved from MD to AL with the four kids and only 10 months after she left my DH. At this point they are not divorced yet. Yes, my DH went a little crazy after she left, he didn’t see it coming at all. DH looks for a job in AL but was unsuccessful in his field. He moves back to TN, 3 hours away from his children. But let’s remember she is not the crazy BM.
She claims he was rarely part of the kids’ lives. Remember he moved from TN to MD back to TN just to be close to the kids. I mean if he didn’t want to be a part of their lives why would he do all that. She has visited the kids once in the last year…. For 9 hours. Really?? And you think you can talk about DH. And let’s talk about child support. Trust me he paid his child support and some. But guess who hasn’t paid any child support in the last year we have had the kids. I find it funny. But remember she is not the crazy ex-wife.