I think I'm done.
So, DH and I have not been good for a while now. I have not been happy. He and his kids have all been getting on my nerves and I've begun to resent them being in my house. They are like the house guests that will never leave. DH has been acting different the last 6-7 months and it's not been attractive, constantly interrupting people while they are talking, wetting the bed, and even peeing in the middle of the floor in the middle of the night. Like WTF?! I asked him what he's been drinking because a few beers here and there does not make people piss everywhere. He said nothing else, he SWORE. I've noticed he's been using the bathroom a lot and for longer periods of time than is normal. So yesterday afternoon, I go in the bathroom and start looking around. Sure enough, 2 whiskey bottles were hidden in the closet. One empty, one half empty. I'm not against alcohol, I myself drink, but I am against getting hammered drunk and pissing the bed or in the floor. I AM against drinking to the point that you have to lie about it and literally hide liquor. Part of me wants to stand by my man and help him while he's down, but a very LARGE part of me wants to tell him he needs to leave. I already want my house back for me and my kids, so I definately am not too keen to share it with someone who is lying to me about his drinking problem. What would ya'll do in my situation?