BM is having a flip out about DH "not putting SD first" because SD had a staph outbreak and DH made her not want to come over (b/c we treat her like she is contagious...b/c she is), then the concussion, now it is his weekend and he wants to spend time with his friends (the only time he gets off is the weekends we have SD)." According to BM DH is crushing their kid and he should put her first. Also BM is pissed she has to rearrange her free time that she gets every other weekend, lol! SD is still not cleared to return to school on Monday and she can't be left alone with this concussion. According to BM she still has 2-3 more weeks of healing time. She is still not processing right. Oh and BM is done protecting SD from knowing that DH puts YDS, ODS and me as his #1.
A couple things here. First of all I'm 100% pissed at DH for being an idiot. He acts like he doesn't know how BM will react to a request in schedule change when SD is "severly injured" yet again. I've told him sooooooooooooooooo many times to not try to change the schedule with BM b/c she is unreasonable even if we "make up" the time. Second I'm pissed that he overcommunicates with BM (also something I have advised against soooooooooooooooooooo many times). I 100% knew that BM would have a flip out and be triggered with SD's most recent "injury". Third, I was pissed that he wanted to show me all of these messages and explain "his bad mood" that he got himself into. I told him IDGAF he should know better and I don't want to see or care what BM has to say he should have expected this and avoided it. Also, I know I shouldn't have but I told him that the other real issue is SD and her "severe injuries" and her and BM have some mental illness when it comes to these injuries that are always so severe and over the top and that SD should wear a helmet and stay on the coach all weekend since her head injury is more severe than an NFL player's injuries.
Ugh, really needed to vent this out!
Guess who is currently looking into activities to not be home this weekend with DH and SD?!?!.....