Upadate to BM’s inquiry re: DH’s income
In my most recent blog post I stated that DH slipped up and told me that a few months ago he found out that BM had put an income inquiry in with the state.
DH currently pays $600/mo, which he pays directly to skid’s school, as that’s her monthly tuition cost.
He finally opened the mail he received from our previous city, state (where BM and skid reside) that has been sitting there for days upon days.
Per the papers, BM not only put in for a potential CS increase, but she is requesting an extra $350/mo for “medical expenses”.
If that’s her request, then why doesn’t she just petition for him to provide health insurance for skid? I assume if it’s going through the support enforcement division that they (the state) will just reword that to reflect it that way?
From my understanding she cannot just request extra money for health expenses/insurance. That they’ll just order DH to provide insurance.
I’m trying to wrap my head around DH paying almost a grand out-of-pocket for one child.
Please enlighten me.
Edited to add: This is why I’m thankful we keep our finances separate.