Who pays for the Halloween costumes in your situation? Does the parent that gets the child for that holiday pay?
My DH has been buying SDs Halloween costumes for her since she was 3. Even on the years he doesn't get to have her. SD is almost 9 now. We have her this year so I guess this vent is stupid. But every other year that we haven't had her, DH has taken SD to the Halloween City Store and paid for her costume. I think if SD is going to be doing the Trick Or Treating with her mother, then the BM should pay for the costume. I'm happy that DH is so involved with SD but on the other hand, I see this as an opportunity for BM to not have to pay for something- once again.