WTF is wrong with these men?!?! Seriously! Gonna choke someone....
I don't know WTF is going on in his head! Seriously! What's going on? I know I'm not the only one here dealing with a DH who has his head in the sand or up his a....
Heres the stupid story..Please forgive my typos, I'm a little worked up.
SD13 is in soccer at school. She has practice every. single. day after school. DD8 and DS5 get out at 3:15..SD has soccer practice until 4:30ish. We usually go hmoe and then go back to the school to get SD. I don't care to watch her practice. Or the kids and I will hang out at their school so they can play on the playground. SD13 has a game today. I am the one who takes the kids to and from where ever..Doctors, dentists, parties, etc etc because I'm not working right now. I ask DH about the game TWO NIGHTS AGO. Where is this game taking place? No one knows. What time is this game over? No one knows. Is the bus going to bring SD to this mystery place? Bring her back to her school? NO ONE KNOWS. Including SD's retarded ass.
Finally last night DH gets some info out of SD13. The game is at another school but she isn't sure if the bus is going to bring her back to her school or how long the game is. I look at DH and say "You know WHAT? I'LL CALL THE DAMN SCHOOL MYSELF TO GET THE NEEDED INFO" DH says ok. I call this morning. Get my info and tell DH. He has the fucking nerve to ask me if I asked what time the game is over. No, no info on time. He tells me "well, not knowing what time her game is over isn't helping you much" dh you MOTHER FUC*&%!!!! IT'S YOUR KID. YOU NEED TO KNOW WHATS GOING ON WITH HER 24/7 NO EXCUSES!
I shouldn't be the one calling. You should, DH. It shouldn't be a f'ing mystery, DH. You need to parent your damn spawn. You need to make her give up the info, and if you can't get your daughter to give you info, then maybe your kid shouldn't be playing a sport! I understand that info is just one call away, but the coaches are obviously giving the needed info and if SD13 is too slow to remember such important info then she shouldn't play.
Something else! I have been checking SD13's planner and having her do her homework. I'm not checking the work though.DH is supposed to be doing that BECAUSE IT'S HIS KID! But no, DH has the nerve to say he thought I was checking her work..No, sir, you better get your shit together!
DH isn't parenting her. It seems he thinks he can just dump her on me. I love DH more than anything, but when it comes to this kid, he's stupid. Just stupid! He keeps telling that hes going to take away her electronics, I've yet to see it. He keeps telling her he's going to take away electronics, I've yet to see it happen.
Lastnight, I told SD she needed to do homework and study for 1 hour at kitchen table per DH. This turned into me telling her 3 different times. DH said he was going to quiz her when he got home from work. Nope, didn't happen. "It got too late" <---DH's words. UGH UGH
I know I'm not working right now, but even if I did have a normal career, like a normal person..Who would take care of SD while I was working? Who would be her chauffeur? Sure as hell not DH. SD can't be trusted alone and I sure as hell aint leaving our two kids in her care! Just because I'm not working does NOT give DH or his brat the right to not inform ME of whats going on when IT CONCERNS ME! It does not give him a right to pawn his kid off on me because he, for whatever reason, has his head in the sand or up his own ass or doesn't know what to do with her!!!!!
I also had to tell DH that SD has to register for her 8th grade classes yesterday. He had no clue this was happening at school, because SD13 telling anyone anything is like pulling teeth. I tell him this this morning and he LITERALLY GRUNTED!!!!
I'm done. I will bite both their heads off if either one of them play stupid from here on out. And yeah, I'm gonna keep taking his spawn to games and everything else because I love DH. :sick: