SD18 moved out a couple months ago. Our home has been peaceful. My stress level has diminished. I quit feeling like a prisoner in my own home but something was still missing. Closure from the years of mental abuse that she has put me through or I should say that I allowed her to put me through. Couple days ago she came over to our home to do her laundry all while have a mental episode because her father wouldn't let her use his vehicle (long story short she has proven she is not responsible enough to drive). Instead of just coming to him and asking him, she text him...one text after the other like a crazy person and then had the nerve to start up with the" you don't love me crap" after all the hell she has put him through over the years. She has done this many times before but this time....I snapped. I completely lost my S*it and told her off...10 years of built up anger came out. DH is backing me up.
That is just what I needed to put closure to my relationship with her. I wish her well but I don't want anything to do with her. She knows how I feel and can finally move on and eventually get past this anger that I feel for her. I have never felt such a life sucking emotion as this. I am putting it in God's hands to heal me.
If you all have any extra prayers please send them this way and if anyone has a similar story to tell do tell.