Boundaries and privacy in your own home
Is it wrong to want privacy in my/our own bedroom when it comes personal things e.i., dressers, drawers, nightstand, stored things, ect.? Last night I came home from work to find my bedroom literally ransacked. Pretty much everything had been gone through even to stored items under the bed. I have lately hid my toiletries because SD17 steals my things and I don't have things I need to shower or get ready for work. I guess that is why she did it...to try and find where the things were, I'm not sure. I guess I just don't get why my DH is ok with all this and never even stops to consider my feelings. I expect privacy in my bedroom. I would think that that is a pretty common standard. I'm not sure if she knows how much it upsets me and is doing it in hopes that I can't take it and I leave or she just does things because she is trying to establish dominance. Whatever the situation may be DH is on her side and no matter how much I love him, this might be a deal breaker.