Asked SO for help
I said something and now I’m alone. I asked my BF for help with our kids and now he’s not talking to me. I just wanted him to come home. No I needed him to come home my health and our babies health depend on it. Being alone for 5 days out of the week with my DD 1 and SD 4 along with being pregnant for months it feels like has put so much stress on me and my body. After taking the stress and everything else that’s involved with taking care of kids by yourself I finally broke. He couldn’t come home though so he got a babysitter for SD 4 so I at least I don’t have both of them here all the time. Now though for the past couple days he’s basically shunned me. Telling me that I’m ridiculous for not being able to handle another week by myself, and that I shouldn’t put everything on him. Basically I’m being childish and I need to handle kids with my mouth shut. I’m not allowed to need help is what this is making me feel like. This is why I hate absolutely hate asking anything of him because the backlash is just as damaging as the initial problem. This relationship is going to be the death of me and honestly I don’t know if it’s worth staying in anymore.