Words I can’t say to anyone
I have a lot to say that I can’t share with my bf with out tons of backlash. First and foremost I love my SD. I wish I could’ve grown and matured before I was thrown into being her mother , but I didn’t. She moved in with me and my BF permanently at the age of 3 after me being introduced into her life after maybe 4 months. We had no time to bond or really get to know each other before she was tossed into my lap to basically raise. My BF spoils and treats her like she’s a literal baby and has the hardest time believing she is anything but sweet and perfect. As her now only mother it falls on me to actually raise her and help her grow into a good and decent person. I’m the primary caregiver to her yet I get told I’m mean and harsh when all I’m doing is fixing the the bad habits and terrible behavior she has been taught. She is mean and hateful when she thinks her dad isn’t looking because when he is she pretends to be this innocent sweet little girl. She refuses to do anything for herself when he’s around and basically reverts back into this baby. She completely switches personalities depending on who’s she’s with. I’m overwhelmed, exhausted and annoyed all day everyday because she demands all of your attention all day everyday. I’ve had her 2 years and I still can’t stand being in the same room with her for more than 5 minutes because she’s so needy and annoying.