HELP, Im so torn - the ex wife from hell.
Hey guys, Im H (25), brand new to this site, so not super familiar with the abbreviations but will try my best.
In short, met my current partner K (35) 6 months ago, at work. hes recently divorced from the Ex (34) (like 6 months prior, she was having an affair with a younger man and left K)
** I was on visa with my ex 'S', were good friends, relationship broke down but was definetly breaking the rules not declaring relationship was over to Dept of immi. **
Theyve got 2 kids D5, S10.
Shes clocked that weve started seeing each other, we all lived in small country town so news moves quick and work for same company. Were happy, it moves quickly.
Within the space of 2 weeks, Shes tried to hit me with her car. Shes broke into K home and taken the spare key to his car and waited for me to enter the food store, then proceeded to steal the car, Shes cornered me at work, threatened to acid attack me and spread rumours around the town im a sex worker.
She has had several of her friends say that ive been slandering her at work, subsequently i lose my job, Shes then proceeded to call the department of Immi, stating im having an affair with her husband and I get my visa cancelled - to leave immediately.
This has all happened in weeks.
Shes turned the children against me, SD5 thinks im great and doesnt listen, SS10 has learnt to tell his mum im mean to him so she gives him presents and abuses me and his father, She has fully alienated SS10 from father. Everything is about money.
My current predicament is, K wants me to return to Aus when hes divorced in October, with him legally as his wife. But i am absolutely terrified of the ex from hell and Ill always have to be near her because of the kids.
Any support you can give would be great, im 25 - new to this Stepworld and living in fear of his unstable ex, But i love him and want to be with him .