Need Advice!!! Sorry this is long
Well this all started day b4 Valentines Day. I told DH that his ex WOULD NOT interfere with this holiday as she does every other one..So me being stupid assumed that NOTHING would come our way this time. So yesterday I go check the mail and low and behold theres a medical bill for his SD, well Im by no means paying this 400.00 bill..So Im livid at this point why in the hell would she have this bill sent to our house..So I call BM and she was being TOOO nice to me..Phone rings so I answer
BM: Oh hello Fubar the kids told me that you called and to hurry and call you back
Me: Yeah I did, I got a bill for YOUR daughter Lauren, she is no long on the insurance as you but I got the kids new card and will mail them all to you, because we arent paying this..
BM: Oh okay that fine with me,thanks for letting me know
Me: Notta problem, so how are the kids?
BM: They are good, they have been wanting to come over but cant get ahold of their dad, they called and talked to him a week ago and he said he had to work..
Me: I had no idea they called him, I will call him and see whats going on.
So I called DH and was like please tell me they are lying and they havent been calling you and you havent told me, NOOO says dear husband I havent talked to any of them since Christmas and havent talked to that bitch since last year when we picked the kids up..Given I did all the pick ups at Christmas..So now Im pissed someone is lying to me, and I dont like to be lied too..So DH calls SS 9 who btw Im also on the phone, so I can hear the conversation..
DH: Why are you guys saying you called and talked to me I havent talked to any of u since christmas
SS: Dad we did talk to you a week ago
DH: Why are you lying you know we havent talked since Christmas
SS: BECAUSE WE HAVE DAD
DH: Now dont get smart with me son, its one thing to be lying then get smart.NO thats not gonna fly
SS: Whatever dad we know what we did
At this point Im scratching my head thinking wtf you precious lil angels dont lie, and you even admit this so why would they lie now??? Well he still swears he didnt call, and starts mouthing off to me like Im the one who said he called..He starts screaming at me you dont ever effin trust or believe me, I never said anything just someone somewhere is lying..We have our sheduled home study Wednesday and court Mar 12..So maybe its just BM getting the kids to lie about their father, if so why he is nothing but nice to those kids..So the skids call my cell phone but their dad was home at this time so I let him handle it..They go back and forth again, and then want to spend the night and my dh has to work and says not tonight I have to work SS then hangs up on DH..So to keep DH from looking like an ass, I volunteer he take them to dinner with us and they went..They barely spoke at dinner his daughter and oldest son talked and smiled but the youngest NOTHING..And this kid used to adore both of us both now Im worried I dont know what is going on..But do you think a child will lie about their father whom they adore or is my husband lying....