BM keeps asking for money
So DH pays child support, however, BM keeps asking for more money.
BM does not work, only her DH does. So I personally feel that since she cannot keep a job it is not our responsibility to keep shelling out money so BM can sit and home and just buy SD things and then come asking for money for it.
We have no issue buying SD things, I personally have bought her things with my own money no problem, I have a good job and happy to do so and do it because I want to. (keep in mind DH and I are engaged not married).
As of this week BM has asked for money for school lunches which we both feel should be covered from child support. She wants the lunch money so that daughter can buy school lunches every day so BM does not have to make lunches.
Then she sends DH a screenshot showing him that she ordered SD books and he can venmo or cashapp her money for the books...umm first of all DH does not use venmo or cashapp, he is old school and just not comfortable with those apps.
Ummm if SD wanted some books we are happy to buy them, however we can order them and send them to her (we have already done this in the past). DH is the one who made this statedment after he saw the text.
Also it is like SD is supposed to call DH every night, and does not. She calls him once maybe twice a week. He sends her texts every morning to say good morning and she responds 1 out of maybe 4 or 5 times. When he calls her she does not always respond and sometimes she will not answer and text her back saying I am busy at that is it.
End of rant, I guess my point is that maybe if SD called DH and let him know she would like something we would get it for her.
But she barely gives him the time of day, oh and BM keeps saying she wants to come visit, he said she wants to come visit but she won't even call or text me
Very sad. I have a daughter whose father passed away from cancer when she was 2, she would be very happy to have a father to call and text and can't and this one does. okay I think rant is over.
Can't wait to hear either the positive and of course some attacks on this post.