SD thinks she’s going to demand things
Skids are at Crazy's and today SD14 text DH that she needs to get Venmo so DH can send her money, So she can give it to Crazy to pay for half of the bras Crazy is allegedly buying her. Ha! DH said, that's not how this works. She asked why not. He said he will buy her a few bras and Crazy can buy her some, but he isn't sending her $. SD said "Then you need fo take me shopping next wknd for bras".
First, I loathe when SD says "you need to" and tells DH or I what to do. How about you ask? She was just here and didn't say a peep about bras. Now that she is with her mom she is sending texts demanding $ and that DH take her next wknd? Second, Crazy doesn't dictate when/if DH sends her $. I told him to reply to SD and say "Tell your mom the $ should be in her acct. it's called Child Support". Lol. And for the record, I am the only one who has ever bought SD bras- never Crazy. DH paid, I helped her pick some out and also bought some online.
What's funny is SD is with Crazy, who is directing her to ask DH for $, and yet Crazy is too dense to set up Venmo and SD has to ask DH to do it....She is incapable of doing anything other than taking SD to get her hair and nails done. Needless to say, DH is not sending $ and told SD absolutely not.
DH is all-around frustrated with SD and her behavior and has been pretty vocal about it, and I'm in the same boat. He said she's been acting more and more entitled and he had flashbacks from when he was helping Crazy raise her other daughter who is now 24, who was so unruly they had to call the cops and she ended up living with Crazy's sister in high school. If it gets that bad SD can live with her "best mom ever" cause I want nothing to do with it. As is, I have not enjoyed being around her at all in the past month or more.
DH just asked me, remember when you told me I can't pick a favorite kid? I said, well I still stand by my statement that you can't treat them differently, but I'm definitely changing my favorite.