Playing Games With Bm
I find it sad that I now have to engage in the same games that BM does. Early on everyone told me to return SD in the clothes she came in. I scoffed. I'll never stoop to those games... I dress her nicely everyday anyway. I wash and fold BMs clothes and send them back in a backpack that we bought of course. Why would BM take care of her daughter? After many months of having our clothes returned balled up in a garbage bag and BM swearing at me over doll clothes in the bag, I made the that decision. Even the psychologist told us to do that BM cannot criticize us or SDs clothes that we put on her making the girl feel bad. I told,myself surely she'll see the error of her ways and do what's right for SD. No go. So, there we are at the beach changing her back into BMS clothes and shoes that are too small. The typical BM shit. When SD tried to run back for another hug, BM screamed at her. No hug from BM! No kiss. She refused to look at me which is good but why the face when your daughter is returned? Why make kids feel bad? And we have to prove her unfit..... This system is extremely flawed.