I must say I am disappointed in many of the responses given to my previous post about my SO's divorce almost being over. My concerns are that he is not able to get custody of his 5 year old who is living with an unstable mother.
Those of you who defend a BM's maniacal behavior should really try to imagine if a man/husband did the things that these women do-in the name of being "hurt." He'd go from restraining orders to OOPs to jail and to limited/supervised visitation. In no way would he be able to keep residential custody.
It is even more disappointing how so many women said "MY" children, not "OUR" or "THEIR" children. It seems the children belong to the mother only. That's great but you change your tune when it comes to child support. THEN they are "OUR" children. When the BMS' want money they remember who the father is, until then it was an immaculate conception.