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daisy0202's picture

DH spoke to Pediatrician alone before entering the room. Then he went to examine her. DH was told to leave room. Then Dr. came out pulled DH in office and told him There is nothing physically wrong with her. He checked her vision and it was fine. Told them Tylenol for headaches, if blurred vision continues contact eye Dr for check on glasses, but other than that is fine to go back to school and gave DH a note to return to school as DH asked.

DH told me when he picked her up and told her she was going to the Dr. she told him there is no need for that I'm probably just comming down with something...Sorry if this messes up things for you :jawdrop: ...DH tells her its not. Grandma will take awesome care of you....It will be fine, dont feel bad...She just looked at him and said I'm sick and your still going. He told her, and I almost died with this one, I dont care if you get admitted to the hospital SM and I are going away Friday we will be back Sunday and NOTHING you do or say is going to stop that from happening. If this behavior continues I will be calling the local psych unit to get you evaluated because this is going to stop today.

After the Dr. She told DH I think I am going to visit mom today and starts calling her. DH tells her tell BM to pick you up from school. SD just looked at him and said your OK with me going there. DH tells her I am more than OK!!!!!!

SOOOOOO SD16 is going to BM tonight and told DH she will be home later, maybe....DH said that is fine but remember this, whatever your BM pulls deal with it..... (she has not been to BM for months).....BM agreed (of course) and DH tells me cry free night....I'm picking up wine on the way home lets drink to a fabulous rest of week.... Your mouth to gods ears!!!

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asheeha's picture

WAY TO GO MR DAISY!!!

i can not tell you how worked up i was FOR you! ha! such great news! and she has shown her colors to daddy now and he's wise to it! i'm betting you won't have many problems getting him on board with you about getting some alone time now!

Biggrin Biggrin Biggrin

daisy0202's picture

I was shocked i can say that...usually she has him wrapped around her finger it drives me crazy....I think this little issue was a plus for me.....SWEET!!!!!!

I feel like a weight has been lifted...I was very concerned about this weekend being messed totally up!!! NOW...NOT!!!!!

CrazieCoconut86's picture

Thank goodness your DH is finally standing up to your SD. That is just great. Enjoy your weekend away!

New second wife-step-mom's picture

If that's what DH wants when he takes up for me or puts BM/SS in their place thats what DH gets and lots of it too!

Auteur's picture

Yeah, does he care to open up a SPINE bank and DONATE?? I know a LOT of guilty/disney dads that need a spine augmentation STAT!!

daisy0202's picture

Me to guys...Its such a relief....I really was worried about our plans....She has messed them up before a number of times....Even my mother was like that little bitch better not mess this up for you guys.....Called her and told her what happened, she was so happy for us....She is taking my son out for dinner so we can have some alone time....Thanks MOM

forestfairy's picture

YAYAYAYAYAY!! I knew that she would want to go see her Mom the very second DH stopped putting up with her crap.

Shall we all take bets on how many times SD will call crying tonight to get picked up?? I vote at least 3.

Way to go DH...start untraining all these behaviors!

Auteur's picture

It will take at least a couple of weeks for SD to think up of another scheme! And she'll have time to collaborate with the BM to come up with said scheme now.

Auteur's picture

That will be next--cutting-mutilation--suicide attempts--SIMPSONS did it. . .! (vague reference to plagiarism)

daisy0202's picture

I am beside myself in total excitment!!!!! Its bad she is going to BM's, this women almost killed her months ago but so be it....You dont get your way now you want "mommy" Good luck with that!!!! It really is ashame we have gotten to this point!

Jsmom's picture

You really need to get a backup plan in place for her next stunt. There has to be a youth facility near you that you can send her to. This girl is not going to stop with these stunts and unfortunately a pyschiatric hold may be the only that works.

daisy0202's picture

I am very proud of DH.....Usually he is all over this kind of behavior in a very bad way

oneoffour's picture

Well the sad thing is one day she will be REALLY sick and blow out her appendix or something and no one will believe her until she lapses into an unconcious state.

I had to smile though at her 'concern' for ruining your plans with her being 'sick'. If she was REALLY sick she would say something like "I don't care what happens, let me go to bed and sleep."

She really needs a dose of reality. Why is she so attached to her father and you? There really must be something mentally wrong with her to keep this up for so long.