SIL is an entitled evil adult COD
A little background information so you won't be confused - my sister is gay and her partner of almost 10 years is a COD.
SIL decided 2 weeks ago that she didn’t want to spend Thanksgiving at my Mom’s. SIL decided that they should spend it with their friends instead.
Fine – but they had already accepted my Mom’s invitation.
My sister brought it up to me and I told her to just tell Mom the truth that you made other plans OR suck it up and spend Thanksgiving with us.
Well SIL decided to call my mom and cancel Thanksgiving. SIL threw my under the bus in the process.
SIL did not just decline my Mom’s invitation she dropped a bomb on my Mom. SIL told my Mom that they were making other plans for Thanksgiving because BettyRay and her DH didn’t really want to celebrate Thanksgiving because BettyRay’s Skids were with their BM on Thanksgiving and it was a hardship for BettyRay’s DH.
Yet again SIL has manipulated a situation to get what she wants, her selfishness knows no bounds, she doesn’t care who she hurts in the process as long as it’s all about her and she gets what she wants.
The truth is I told my sister that Mom is focused on celebrating the holiday on the actually day and that sometimes it’s hard on us because we don’t have the Skids for every holiday and my Mom just thinks I can just tell BM we need the Skids here at X time on Y holiday.
DH and I spent the last 2 days doing damage control with my Mom. Mom is so hurt – I hate that SIL hurt her to get what she wanted.
And my sister is totally defending SIL. I’m done with them.