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SD14 tries to start a S**T storm...

Anywho78's picture

I commented to SO this morning about how quiet it’s been on the SD14 & SD16 front lately. I have heard exactly ZERO from or about them in what seems like MONTHS.

SO responded to my comment with “WHAT? WTH would make you think it’s been quiet???”…well…it turns out that SD14 & SD16 kicked up an imaginary shit storm while SO was in Florida. It goes like this…

Text convo between SD16 & SO:
SD16: Thanks DAD! I heard you & Anywho got married & of course, SD14 & I weren’t even invited!
SO: What are you talking about?
SD16: SD14 said that Niece13 said you two got married!
SO: Nope…not yet…it’s still 2014.
SD16: Whatever DAD!

SO then calls MIL to ask her to talk to Niece13 (they are VERY close) to see if she even had ANYTHING to do with this story…MIL is pissed off about the drama which is the norm for SD14 & SD16 but says she’ll talk to Niece13. SO does not actually think Niece13 had anything to do with it but wanted confirmation. MIL calls SO back saying Niece13 is crying & upset because she had NOTHING to do with it & she KNOWS SO & I aren’t married yet because she sees us all the time (whereas SD's do not)

Text convo between SD14 & SO:
SD14: HOW DARE YOU YELL AT MY FRIEND! You have no right to speak to her at all, much less get nasty with her over something YOU did!
SO: She may be your “friend” but she’s MY NIECE. She & I are fine & I have no idea what you’re talking about!
SD14: Thanks for the invite to your wedding! Niece13 (friend) said that Anywho & you got married but that SD16 & I weren’t invited because Anywho is a bitch & doesn’t like us!
SO: First off, I talked to Niece13 & know she said nothing of the sort to you or to anyone else. But Anywho is not the one with the problem, you & SD16 are…besides she & I are not married & won’t be until 2014…nothings changed on that front.
SD14: Whatever! Would you even invite us?
SO: Of course we would!

SO was confused about why Niece13 was upset since he never spoke to her (MIL did) so he texted her to make sure she was okay. She was & all is well.

When SO was telling me this story & showing me the texts, I just told him that these girls are one GREAT reason to elope. There is not a chance in HELL I want those girls in attendance on what is supposed to be MY day.

All that to say…SD14 started a shit storm & then was too stupid to call it quits even when she knew her game was up. She is certainly not the sharpest tool in the shed.

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Anywho78's picture

LOL I did...I said that it would have been a wonderful opportunity to A. mess with them HARD or B. Put their nasty little asses in their places but alas...there's always next time, right?

just tired's picture

This is exactly the reason DH & I eloped. Because we knew that his daughters and their mother would go to any lengths to ruin our day.

Elope. Do not tell any of them ahead of time.

Trust me....no good can come from trying to include them in your day. They don't want you to have "your day".

Anywho78's picture

That's the way that I'm leaning but my family is all wanting an actual wedding & the resident Skids (8 & 9) want to be there too...but none of them make the argument good enough to have the teenage SD's in attendance.

Annanymous's picture

He should have shut her down with that first flippant text. You are a child, NOT an adult to speak to me in this manner. If and when I marry is my prerogative and if my CHILD cannot behave like a civilized person, there will be consequences.

How dare that kid chide her father for dare checking with his niece. Someone has let that little girl feel like she is an adult equal in the family equation and it will only continue or get worse from here unless she is put in her place - as a child.

Anywho78's picture

Ahhhh Annaymous, she & her sister have been put in their place...they now refuse to come over because they don't like living in a world that they don't rule. It has been this way for a couple of years now. Their BM (Redneck) promotes this behavior & has for years.

bi's picture

that kind of bullshit is exactly why when fdh and i get married, we ARE eloping. to vegas. without a word to anyone til it's done. the way sd19 and his sm acted during my first lost pregnancy is reason enough for me to never want them to know any big news in my life EVER again. we may have a reception later, but only if he agrees that no bullshit will be tolerated, even if that means throwing those 2 bitches out.

newbiemommy's picture

Ohhh EMMMMM GEEEE! LMAO. These girls! WTH!?! SO should have told them, "You did all this to find out if you will be invited or not? Well, you just earned your uninvite." Those SDs.... WOW... Theres almost no words for the shit they have tried to start.