I submitted a bill for my daughters meds and eye doc visit to my ex. $25, ExH is suppose to pay 1/2 of uncovered costs. Well his wife has beeen calling me, harassing me about it and throwing a fit. I told her politely...I am not discussing my daughters business with you, I will speak with her dad. Come to find out ex's wife called docs office demanding info. She keeps calling me and texting me and frankly I'm pissed. My mom says not to speak with her anymore, she has no business calling me about my kids. Is my mom right?

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OK this is my first time doing this, so plz bare with me! I have three step children, all girls, ages 22, 20 and 15. My hubby and I have been married for almost 9 years. We also have two children together, 8 and 4. The situation with the step kids keeps gettign worse and worse. The last blow up I had to kick out the 20 year old out (for the fourth time), but yet I ALWAYS get pegged as the bad guy, only because i expect her to watch her mouth and pick up after herself, and take care of her 13 month daughter.

our 17 yr old son hates me because i have not given him what he wants no disipline no chores no resposibilty but his mother my wife does give him what he wants i have been blamed for the boys attitudes problems his failures in school and every thing that can go wrong in a childs life

I now believe that both SS and BM have full Carte Blanche with my DH. There is NOTHING either could do that would wake DH up and get him back to reality. 22yo SS is a loser who was found this morning breaking into and sleeping in our garden shed. BM sent her demon spawn to live with us at the age of 17, never paid child support but had the unbelievable gull to claim him as a dependent on her tax return.

So, as I said before I periodically check BMs facebook page.. I'm compulsive sometimes..idk.. Point being, she usually has everything private accept her profile pics.. So I just looked and she had an album for her father who passed away last year.. So out of curiosity I look at it.. Well on my phone (I'm at work) when u click the albums it brings up smaller pics, whcih u click to enlarge.. As I scroll down I see a small semi blurred pic that seems to look like my BF!!!

I took everyone's advice I had received on here. Everyone has been amazing. I took time to find myself and work out my own issues. So many things have happened.

1. His mother and I are on much better terms and I have learned to "respectivly" stick up for myself.

So back in Feb, BM was put in jail for not showing up to an enforcement hearing. They let her out the next day and told her to "be a good girl" and pay her CS on time every month for the next 6 months. Here we are in June and she failed to pay the amount in full for May. Most likely it was an oversight because her wages are garnished, but because she is a cocktail waitress, her paychecks are not enough to cover the entire support amount (it's usually short about $40).

Help my 22yo SS moved back into our house again. He lived with us since 17 when BM kicked him out of her house. We got him to graduate high shool with a $1200/month tutoring bill, but we did it. He finally got into a state college (by a mistake at admission) which we pay for. He is lazy, gets c's and d's ditches shool and barely avoids academic probation. Has no girlfriends or any other friends and this is the third time he got kicked out of a room mate situtation. He does not flush the toilet at age 22 so I don't blame the roomies.

One of my best friends is in kind of a delicate situation at the moment. Her and her husband have been married for a little over two years. She told me they had already started trying to have a baby, but as of yet, no baby. I don't think they've been trying for long.