Ok friends....lets get a few things straight...I am very laid back, do not like to argue, like things done right, I like a clean house, and I am into responsibility. Thats a little about me.

My husband babies his daughter who is 12. She is lazy and ungrateful and it gets worse everytime she is at the house. I try to overlook it, but at times it is very hard to deal with.

I just did some detective work & discovered that BM's nasty BFF that she constantly exposes my skids to has been arrested & convicted of theft twice. When BM had this woman's kids for a month because she was in Ls Vegas for job training she was in the Shakopee woman's prison serving 30 days. WTF! BM had this woman watch her house when she was out of town this month & she left her garage door wide open & was a bitch to me when I stopped by her place to tell her because I was afraid someone could rob BM's house or the dog could get out.

I posted a blog yesterday titlted "Sociopath" I disclosed that the real term used these days is "antisocial personality disorder". I also admitted that a diagnosis can't be made until it's pretty much too late to be treated (adulthood). I went on to compare the symptoms with my experiences with my SS10 who I've known for over 5 years. I also went on to describe my concern for my BS3, who is VERY much obsessed with him and influenced by him, and who has also suffered physical abuse at SS10's hand. I posted out of desperation, as many mothers would have in this situation.

I have been wondering if anyone's feeling about their own step-parent changed after they became a step-parent. My mom remarried when I was 12 after my BF had passed away 6 years prior, she and my step-father had my sister. I remember my siblings and I feeling angry about the marriage and forthcoming baby.

I am so pissed. I am not paranoid. I knew this is how it was. I texted DH that ExMil emailed me. He never responded, which was weird, because even though we aren't together, we've been civil. I asked if he had talked to BM. He didn't answer again. I got pissed so I texted him with "its so funny how to act towards me when SS10 isn't around, its funny how you let him, his mother and her mother harass me". I know I shouldn't have but whatever. And I fibbed about the harassing me part, but again whatever.

DH rearranged his work schedule for our therapy session tomorrow morning. He has a performance review, but changed the time to the afternoon so that we (DH, SD and myself) could all attend our session tomorrow. It was difficult to schedule this due to everyone's differing schedules, but we managed it.

Little background, I have been around my sd since she was the age of 2 1/2. Her bm is some piece of work but has gotten a little better over the years. We have always taken my sd when ever we could and pretty much we still can get her when ever we want because frankly her mother could give a rat's behind. Secoundly we have bought this child everything she has ever needed plus payed cs to his ex that in itself is annoying but I cant stand so see her do without because she cant help what her mother is ya know.

BF daughter had a friend to sleep over last night...sweet little girl..very polite. Late last night when we were asleep, I guess they got up and decided to get things from the fridge...cabinet...wherever and mix things together in pots. It looked like my kitchen had exploded this morning and it actually looked like they had attempted to clean it up some so I can't imagine what it looked like before they did that. They had gotten in to my spices and probably emptied $25 worth of spices...coffee grounds were everywhere...cool aid mix...everything they could find I guess.

im 23 years old my husband is 29 i me and my husband have an eight month old daughter and he has a seven year old from an ex girlfriend. i always told myself id never date a guy with kids because to me its nothing but baggage and problems. well when we got together he made it sound like all he does is pay child support the mother never lets him see her. not the case what so ever he owes thousands of back child support and he gets to see his daughter when the mother decides not to be a bitch.

An "anonymous" caller informed CPS that SS5 had "fresh whip marks" on his arms/legs/back that were noticed."WHIP MARKS" apparently by a belt- WOW! Amazing.. because he's either with us, @ camp [where he swims everyday] with his shirt off mind you, or on his EOE weekend with BM.. Hmmm.. anoymous huh?

The police were called as a seperate dispatched call to make a welfare check.. Hmmm.. very interesting..

I have never had so many police rolling up in my driveway, or calls from child services in my life.. and all after getting custody of SS5..