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Jsmom's picture

Well we received the offer of settlement on the CO modification from the BM from hell. She wants $586 a month CS. Us to cover the health insurance. She wants DH to lift the restriction on exposure to her SD18. We keep 50/50 of SS12 and she has full custody of SD14. Unbelievable. Our lawyer says she is only entitled to $96.00 not $586. Her lawyer seems to have pulled this number out of thin air.

Question ladies...on DH and his female friends.

Purpleflower09's picture

My DH and I work in a bar as part time jobs on top of our regular mon-fri , 8-5 jobs. My DH is head bouncer and he DJ's when needed and he also tattoos. He has alot of chicks flirt with him and such. He's not drop dead hot, but he's not bad either. He seems to never introduce me to his female friends...they know he is married but they dont know to whom. He will introduce me to his male friends...but rarely the female..actually I've only met one female friend of his and we are all good friends ( she is married with kids..she's great) would any of you have issues with this with your DH?

OT- HEALTHY recipes for kids

Last-Wife's picture

Okay, I'll build this from another post... Gibby and I just got back from meeting with a dietician this morning. Gibby turned 9 yesterday. He weighs 113 pounds and is 54 inches tall.

I love him to death! But his nickname, Gibby, is cause he looks and acts like Gibby on iCarly. He's just a cute, round little thing. (Like his mama!)

But the dietician told us we are on the right track. Limit portions. Watch sweets. Push fruits and veggies. Get exercise. The idea at this point is to maintain, and just let him catch-up as he grows taller.

In relation to summerflowers post....

dguiwh2334's picture

Sunflower made a very good point! For most people Smile And I agree totally, but what about ppl in my situation? Where BM admits that she wants my BF back, she has a bf of her own, texts my BF every week about how she misses him, blows up his phone, calls to ask how his sick grandma is doin the other day, and BF looks at me with complete annoyance and hands the phone to the kids... ??? Then BM askes to put their dad back on, and BF says "I will have the kids call tomorrow, bye"

Aww… THIS is why it’s all worth it!

Moon Child Step Mom's picture

DH just called me at work and said, “I feel like I haven’t seen you in a WEEK (I’ve had some corporate visitors at work and we’ve been up to our eyeballs with take home work and office dinners out)! Can we pretend we’re Siamese twins tonight and sew our heads together… I need some close time with my wife…”

I just melted…

Yet another option for SD...

redheaded_stepmom's picture

DH came up with something else to present to SD15 as an option about going to live with BM. He thinks she should stay with us for her 10th grade year of HS and then the day after school is out we can put her on a plane to BM and she can stay there the entire summer and if she decides she wants to stay on and go to school there, she can. I think that sounds like a reasonable idea provided SD15 can knock it off with her behavior issues and quit treating the rest of us like dog poo.

DH saw with his own eyes!

stepmom31's picture

It turns out that the long chat DH ended up having with the kids this weekend was because SS and I were in the kitchen and I told him something and when I turned my back he stuck his tongue out at what I said (not directly at me, but in response to what I had said) and DH saw him do it (through a glass door from the patio)!!

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