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Seasons's picture

}:) My DH is driving me crazy, this skds don't bother me as much as the DH. DH is self medicating with Alcohol and it just keeps getting worse he lectures and lectures he is self rightous in all of his glory. I have a headache and I am sick and he won't just relax he has always got to be up in other people's business.. I think I need to go to alanon. Thanks for letting me vent... There I said it now I can try to return to him with a delightful smile....

EVERYTHING does not require discussion

stressgirl79's picture

So. Every time my bios get in a fight, DH has no problem whatsoever telling them to knock it off and taking away whatever they were fighting over. The end. But if it's HIS kids, he thinks it's a much better idea to sit them down for like half an hour and discuss what led up to the fight, what feelings are involved, why the fight happened, what can be done to avoid the situation next time, ad nauseum.

Advise on BF's daughters

Matchmadejns's picture

My fiance and I have been happily together for 2 years. We moved in together very soon after we started dating. We were living like newlyweds for a year and then his (then 19 y/o) daughter moved in. I was excited in the fact that she and I could develop a relationship, sad in the fact that we were no longer alone (just being honest). She has been living with us since March of this year (6 months). I welcomed her, invited her to have luncheons when Dad was at work, hung out with her and really tried to bond as a friend.

Surprised by my MIL

SteppingUp's picture

MIL came to our house last week and spent a night, as she was driving through town after visiting my brother in law and his kids. I was really shocked that she was even going to come over, because since I've lived there (2 years) she has not even come inside the house. We get along great, she's just always gotten a hotel when she's come to town and had us bring the kids there.

My BF's 14 yr old daughter is a BRAT

bjmoore17's picture

My bf's 14 yr old daughter is such a brat but it's not entirely her fault. Her mother puts things in her head about me and she repeats it to her father. She has said that I am a bad mother and I don't have anything to do with my son. I don't know why they say horrible things about me because I have never spoken to her mother and I have been nothing but good to his children. I took pictures of this girls middle school prom and put them together as a digital album and sent them to her. I also picked up an Ed Hardy Tshirt for her just because I thought she would like it and she did.

My Knot is Coming Undone

zookeep81's picture

I was at the end of my rope, tied a knot to hang onto and now that knot is coming undone. Don't know what to do. SS and SD recently came to live with us after their BM passed away. SS is 14 and SD is 13. My son is 16 and our son is 11. Biggest problem is my SS. He is very angry, feels like he is constantly picked on, is disrespectful and always wants to pick a fight. He lies all the time and does not understand why no one believes him.

DH hits me up for $$$

cyberwoman's picture

DH comes up to me last night and asks my approval to give his son $$$ for his tuition and books. Mind you this is the same young man who broke into our home, stole from us, called me an @sshole and told me to f*ck off. So I told DH why are you asking me I do not give money to people who are disrespectful to me no matter whose son they are. Naturally DH gets pissed off and starts arguing that I just can not have an adult conversation without hashing out old shit all the time. Old shit?

We can't have peace!

lisa510's picture

My DH was gone and we had a great day until SD16 came home asking for a trampoline. (previously posted) We stayed up until 2 in the morning talking about the stupid trampoline. I hate wasting all this energy on the crap we have to deal with due to the skids.

I guess I need to chill sometimes. I raised my bio kids differently.

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