These people piss me off. Any parent that would harm a child pisses me off but I have a significant amount of animosity when Sparents are the abusive parent.

I guess because I am a Sparent and being a Sparent is hard enough without having to overcome the stigma that these ingnorant evil ass holes apply to the Sparent title.

Grrrrrr!!!!

I swear I could do stand-up comedy with my life!

your haters are your biggest fans, they talk about you the most!

That's right bm's talk all you want! He he

Its a glorious night when you put your laptop on a pillow on your lap high enough so it blocks sd's stares and glares...Darn..maybe she'll go play now.
Seriously though, my biggest mistake was telling her to stop glaring at me from the corner of her eye cuz, hello, i can freakin see you and you know its makin me uncomfortable...so she does what...stares and glares more. I so sick and effin tired of being provoked. Can't even sit in my effin living room in peace without this shit.

I've been here on this site for 2 or 3 years maybe?

I don't write many blogs myself, but I do comment quite a bit on other peoples blogs. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone here who has offered great advice, made me LOL, smile, and who have just been there when I couldn't talk to anyone else.

Thank you!

BM called last night. Talked to Hubby about crazy things.. Then she blurts out your just going to be thrilled..he said about what...BM said "I have cancer and it is terminal" Husband who knows that she is not always honest, asks some questions. He was not getting anywhere. He asked what can I do to help...She states, "STOP WITH THIS CHILD SUPPORT STUFF!" Now would that really be on someones mind if they WERE that ill? What the hell do we do now?

Hi again everyone,

I'm pretty sure this is a problem just within myself, but I cannot seem to shake it. Earlier in the day, I was going to surprise my fiancee by organizing our photos into albums, boxes, etc. I came across ones of him and his ex, her being very pregnant and him rubbing her belly. My own fault I know, but I was immediately sad. Fiancee said he hasn't gone through the pictures ever, apologized and got rid of them though.

I have been wondering weather bm would win when she tries to take dh back to court to make him pay for college expenses for the boys. It is not a matter of if but when. Bm is money grubby and has made it very clear she will stop at nothing to get as much money from us as she can. She tried to put it in the papers that dh has to pay half of all college for each child but dh said no and was very adamant about not having it in there, this was among a lot of other crap she wanted dh to pay for which was way more than he was making.

I feel absolutely sick to my stomach right now. Idk where to even start. I'm just so aggravated, disgusted, confused and overwhelmed.

:O Ok-the more my bf shares the more I realize what kind of crazy bm he deals with.

His ex lives w/her mom and her moms husband (guess that would be stepdad). According to my ex the stepdad (his D stepgrandpa I guess) is the only redeemable of the bunch.

But...he foudn out the other day that when his D gets back from school bus (she's 9!), the grandma normally arrives 20-40min after that-