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I am not sure I can handle it any longer..

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Submitted by meneran on Mon, 12/13/2010 - 3:40am

Hi everyone,

As my blog title says, i am not sure i can handle this situation any longer.

At first, we had the boy(9) every weekend. It was very hard to stay sane. We both work monday to friday and weekend is our only time off. We had him from friday afternoon until sunday afternoon. That meant no private time for two of us at all. The boy was hard to handle. He literally cannot do anything by himself, he needs constant attention etc.. im sure many of you lived trough the same ordeal.

Small Satisfaction

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Sun, 12/12/2010 - 8:54pm

So last weekend when we had SD's SD5 was what shall I say.....hmmm..a pain in the ass. Yeah...that's accurate. She was whiny, and argumentative, and everything she was told to do was such torture for her. She had a complete meltdown about wearing socks and she was just overall bratty. She had been with us more then usual for the couple of previous weeks and she had a couple of behavioral issues with school having this same whiny bratty attitude with teachers. BM had declared that she must be acting this way because of the back and forth between our home and hers.

OMG my crazy aunt at it again!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sun, 12/12/2010 - 6:56pm

I got a mess on facebook from her (which I have already blocked her) accusing me of being mean to my uncle. I haven't seen him in over a year. This is my reply

December 11 at 11:22pm
I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. I haven't seen him since gma was in the hospital! And you are right I'm not afraid of you never have been. I just feel sorry for you b/c you are obviously mentally disturbed.

This is her reply

"Boys will be boys."

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Submitted by Last-Wife on Sun, 12/12/2010 - 4:42pm

PITA 16 trashed Loghead's car yesterday afternoon. And Loghead isn't even slightly upset!

It was one of those weird weekends around here. I got a stomach bug around 2:00 Friday afternoon, and Gibby and I came straight home. Sadly, I told my 9 year old to have cereal or make PBJ cause I couldn't even be near food or out of the bathroom! Loghead was out chaperoning an event for his school, and the skids were at their ball tournament. No one was home to help, but I did make sure Gibby got food before I passed out asleep.

Should you take CS if you don't need it?

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Submitted by Ssamantha on Sun, 12/12/2010 - 2:54pm

Our BM believes that my DF does not "NEED" her CS. She is planning to move hundreds of miles away and DF will basically have them full-time. She does not believe she should pay CS because he doesn't "need" it. I guess since he was able to take care of them while she ducked and dodged CS and quit jobs when they caught up with her, makes her think he doesn't "need" it.

So my question is, if you have two parents and one is doing a lot better than the other, should the person who is not doing so well pay CS if the court orders it based on the amount of time with the kids?

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