Friday morning....my quiet time after DH leaves for wotk and before DD wakes up. I savory this time pretty much every morning. Friday's especially. DD will be leaving for school in little over an hour and then my work day will begin. A friend may stop by for coffee and to chat...hopefully work won't be too busy. Sounds like bliss, doesn't it? But its Friday! and Friday is the day that the Skids come over. So by lunchtime I will be stressing up.

Hello everyone!

Last night I was thinking, how do you guys handle your house keys situations? Do your skids own a key to your home?

I know its too early for me to think about that, but ss9 will grow and eventually key issue will come to the table.

I don't want him to have key to our house. It is not his house, he lives with his mother and that should be his primary residence. He only visits eow now.

If you handed over the keys to your skid-s, when did you do that? How was it done? Was there problems?

I want to tell her you gave up your family and cheated on your husband. You had your husbands childhood bff od in your bed and I have no flippen clue how the law could allow you to take care of a child...YOu had an amazing man..Ok, I am not playing house but living life and teaching your child his abc's and 123's, his manners, teaching him what greedy means...I could go on and on...

Princess is back in the hospital today. She called me this time! My heart was breaking, because I could hear through the phone the pain she was in. There's really not much I can do, with her college being two hours away... She ended up going back to the hospital, since the doctor she met with earlier in the week wasn't in the office till 1 on Thursdays.

Loca Grande went up to be with her, and ended up bringing her back to the capital city to a larger hospital to try to meet with a specialist.

Still no news...

DH and SD had a major blow-out. She says she's not ever coming back. BM called and I hung up on her. We have heard nothing from BM or SD (usually we get nasty calls and emails). DH has been in such a good mood and wants sex ALL the time. I find it very odd, almost like he's glad I finally put my foot down about the bs and crazy phone calls and now he just wants to do it all the time.

Me and DH went home for Christmas and DH noticed that SS7 smelled of urine so he checked his pants and sure enough he had peed in his pants. DH told SS that he needed to stop being lazy and go to the bathroom. DH told me this and I told him that maybe there was something else to it and that he should ask SS about it instead of just assuming that he was still lazy. So the next day DH asked SS about it and SS said that he just didn't make it to the toilet in time.

So in my last post I said that DH finally told SD that she does have to listen to me if she's going to come to our house. She said she would never come back if she had to listen to me. She took all her things to BM's.

Today's conversation...

Me: So DH do you want to go to the usual place on Saturday that we go when the older kids aren't with us or do you want to do something else. (We only will have BD2 all weekend).
DH: Ummm, I don't know yet, maybe. I have to wait and see if SD wants to come this w/e.

9 year old also does not want to do homework or pick up after herself. She has lived with her dad for last 3 years. bm.comes and goes. any suggestions

that there is nothing that can surprise us any longer..right?

Okay, so BM has contacted FMIL and stated that FDH is sneaking out of my bed at night and going to her (parent's) house (where she lives) to sleep with her stating "f*** (his mother, father, step-mother, me (of course, and i believe...his sister)" and that he only wants to be with her...
Also that I have sent her nasty text messages and posted weird things on my Facebook.

I watched an episode of house today after seeing my psychiatrist and blabing about DH's ex. A lot was put in perspective. Here is the quote:

House: "People don't get what they deserve. They just get what they get, and there's nothing any of us can do about it."