SD15 came over last weekend & things were uneventful. Hopefully she’s turning a new page as far as her behavior goes. There are many issues between her & her BM Redneck, but that is normal & is to be expected.

SO & I greatly enjoyed our 4 days of being Skid free during our FL trip

Wow!!! I had to share this message with you that I received today from BM. I'm actually tripping about her displayed rage, hatred, & obvious jealousy . . . wow!!! She is so far gone & she'll never change. SMH. Oh so that you know what happened, I found out that SS11 was on FB & I sent [him] the following message & several weeks later (today/Saturday), I received this message from BM.SMDH

DH and I are waiting for the arrival of our DD any day now... I was wondering if after she is born if we can get CS modified because of the new addition to our family and home?? She currently gets a little over 1/2 of his BAH (Basic Housing Allowance) and we live off of his paycheck only because I was a full-time student and too far along in my pregnancy to find a job over the summer... and I had his kids for almost 2 months and it was cheaper for me to care for them than to get daycare for them... So basically BM is getting $550 a month for 2 kids...

I've been thinking about what we're doing this Xmas because last year was a disaster that I don't want to repeat. Anyway, I decided that we should take a mini trip so our son can go to the amusement park and we can have some couple's time. Well DH automatically thinks his kid is invited.

Yesterday my SS4 went back to BM but my DH had to work. So my DH ask if I could drop him off so DH would not be late for work. But that psycho bitch has it in the court order that I can not be the competent adult unless the parties agree. So when DH told that BM got pissed off and called the cops. So then DH told BM that his sister will take him back. My DH told that to the cops on the phone, she just makes a big deal over something so small. She has a very much hatred over me so she does whatever she can to make our lives a living hell.

As some of u may know i am trying to get dh c.s lowered.. and ive been doing research so that we can go to court but avoid a lawyer.. but when it comes to the c.s calculator, im kinda stuck, I know how much she makes but there are some words/sections i dnt really understand...n if we r going to do it oue selves with out a lawyer i want to fill it out correctly.. please HELP!!!!

Just wondering as it sounds typical spoiled daughter thinks she should have daddy to herself...it should be interesting to see what happens w/the counseling sessions...I'll be watching...maybe we should discuss here...seems dad is 100% sure kid stopped talking to him because of his deceased wife and adult daughter is looking for sympathy now that smom is gone...but so far she's making herself look bad by only focusing on what "daddy" needs to chg & how she is the victim, although she chose to stop talking to him ONLY because he married Farah...hmmm

Really? You sure you want to know? Well, let me tell you! I'm feeling fan-f*cking-tastic at having my home, where I pay bills and clean and act like an adult, turned into a love den with SO and SDevil! It feels GREAT to be cast aside for three nights and listen to "Daddy I love you!" and "Daddy, can you help me because I'm purposely alienating MC?" (the bit after the help I added from my POV....if she said that, I'd seriously throw her in traffic). It feels AWESOME to have a CHILD weigh in on decisions like where we should eat and what we should do, then be included like I'm the child!

I have been a member of another online forum for four years. I made some good friends there but the bullying has become so bad that I decided I needed to find a different group. I am hoping this one will be more supportive. I am a mom and a stepmother. My stepchild is a teenager and has been alienated by his mother. We do not see him very often. Even though we are disengaged for the most part, I still need support for my mental and emotional state.