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We saw SD15 without drama!

Anywho78's picture

SD15 came over last weekend & things were uneventful. Hopefully she’s turning a new page as far as her behavior goes. There are many issues between her & her BM Redneck, but that is normal & is to be expected.

SO, the resident Skids & I returned SD15 to her BM by way of taking her to her basketball game. On the way there, BM Redneck blew poor SD’s phone up telling her that we were late (which we weren’t) & via text claiming that SO was crappy at keeping time & she (BM) should have known better than to trust him with anything…funny coming from her, really, it is! SO started getting agitated while driving & I tried to calm him down…told him “now hon, no need to get a ticket just because Redneck has her panties in a twist…don’t let this ruin our trip”…he calmed down & SD was at her game with MORE than enough time to spare.

As we were leaving, BM Redneck decided this would be the PERFECT time to nag on SO about all of the things she & SD expect from him. I took myself off with the resident Skids & had them running around out of ear shot. After about 15 minutes however, I had had enough. I went over there & asked SO if they were about done. He went about attempting to introduce BM Redneck & I…I reminded them both that we had met (her first words to me were “GOOD LUCK” and a glare). I of course didn’t want to talk with her after her attempt at making our ride over hideous & told SO the little ones were tired & we needed to think about heading off…we said our goodbyes & SO cracked up claiming I “pissed in BM’s cherios”…not sure how I did that but ok.

Most of my blogs are about BM Nasty & her lack of interest in SS8 & SD7…if our “communication” with BM Redneck continues, I may have to share poor unfortunate SO’s story with this BM as I don’t think I will be humanely capable of being nice to her.

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NCMilGal's picture

I know exactly how you pissed in Redneck BM's cheerios - good for you!

You interrupted her rant/attention fest with a reasonable request, and didn't play into her need for drama. You spoiled her fun. Again, good for you!

While I know you don't think you can be nice to her, that may be your best weapon against her. If you play into her drama, she wins. If you ignore, ignore, ignore, she gets frustrated and pissy. Sure, you get frustrated with her idiocy too, but maybe you can distance yourself enough to laugh at her. After five years, I've gotten to that point about 90% of the time.

And just think! You've got a little less than three years, and then you can legally cut Redneck BM off!