This is about my bil21. All bil life he's been a spoiled brat. He was raised with mil, sil and 2 half-sibs. Dh was raised by my fil and they lived 500 miles away. Bil21 is also the youngest kid of mil and fil. So he always got what he wanted. Sil spoiled him as much as she could and always babied him growing up. When she had a job in high school she would take him out to eat just because he wanted to go. Fil also spoiled him- big time guilty dad since he and mil divorced when bil was 3. So when I met dh, bil was a teen with no goals, no cares, nothing.

I was looking at suggestions on my previous blog from lucky91 I believe. She suggested military school. I love the idea except for the cost. We CANNOT afford military school right now. We are struggling as it is. But I was looking online and the one near us does have scholarships as another poster said there would be. I have no doubt in my mind that SS will get this scholarship. He is a grade topper and is one of the best players in the football team.

My Dear fiance and his ex got into it last night via phone because of SD9's weight. Her mother has been up my fiance's ass about how much she has gained in the last few months so yesterday she took the liberty to take SD9 for a check up and it turned out she weighs 97lbs. Mind you the child is 9 years old and about 4 feet and a few inches. Is this healthy? Is she considered "over weight"?

I need SS to leave my house. I cannot handle him anymore. He is exposing my children to pot and alcohol. And let's not forget the underage sex. But where would we send him. His mother has gone off with her convict boyfriend to Mexico (so she says). My in-laws will not take SS even though they like him. We are stuck with him. I love my husband with all my heart but I will divorce him if I have to. I cannot believe I am letting SS break our family apart. I want to just beat up that little snot nosed punk.

Last week I got upset with FDH and his lack of communication with BM. Once again, BM used the line, "You never told me about this so I made plans" and I can't necessarily blame her for manipulating because I just don't know if FDH truly did make things clear with BM. And once again, who bears the brunt of this? ME. Long story short, I was expected to take SS3 while FDH is out of town because BM "made plans" and she didn't "realize" that FDH was still out of town training although it's been the same story the last 2 Fridays.

I really thought we were getting somewhere with SS. After taking legal action against his mother to avoid all contact, it got much better. But of course the hag's family had to come harrass SS a bit but that stopped when SS threatened to go to the police. So I assumed that it would be better for all of us. I was wrong. After he disinvited us for the father's day weekend, it has just gone downhill. It all started at the 4th of July weekend. We had gone to SS's apartment to celebrate. Of course, SS finds some reason to get angry at my husband again. This just gets tiring.

so I am glad to be going out tomorrow. even a few hours around kids ia too much for me.

side note: the Kid looks just like bm. ew. so gross.

she called to talk to him tonight and he mentioned how he and his dad cleaned up his room. something I helped with...c'est so bon, c'est la vie. I don't mind that.

the Mister does not speak with her at all. nice, that

but being around a kid ia already taking its toll. I don't think I will be around for any extended Kid visit after this, but will absent myself to the studio or on a small road trip each time.

DH and I want to decline a wedding invitation from his nephew. Nephew keeps leaving messages wanting to know if we are going to RSVP. Nephew and his GF are good friends with BM and we know they invited her. I personally have not been close with nephew and his GF in the past 8 years. DH hasn't really spoken to his nephew either. Nephew knows the hell BM put DH through and nephew still chose to be "closer" with BM. Inviting her to their family gatherings and just hanging out on weekends clubing it up with her and what ever boyfriend she had at the time. So, how do we decline?

SD - 8 and i have had some up's and downs.. She is a very shy kid and we have been living together for 18months and i can barely get 2 words out of her. She has gotten better and has started telling me stories of her day and having a opinion, but she is a DIVA as well and had melt downs that can last 2 hours when she wants 2 as well!

any help would be so much help...I have a 9 y.o. stepson who in the four years that my husband and i have been married has slowly started to manipulate our marriage. It started with little things such as running to his father if he didn't like my answer, but now has turned into lies, stealing and my husband doesn't seem to see what he is doing, but rather arguing with me that I am too hard on my stepson and that i need to stop being so hard on him.