Nice Try Mr. Not So Neutral
Instead of focusing on rebuilding Chef's vintage vehicle, Mr. NSN, who is heavily enmeshed with his adult son the Mechanic, let it slip that Chef's only full-blooded brother (Uncle Kinky) who has been shunning Chef for divorcing the Girhippo, is moving back from the "big city" to his hometown which Uncle K has despised in his youth as being a "hick town."
Seems the big city is now too dangerous for Uncle K to live in with all the Kia Boys break-ins. It should be noted that until it affected him, Uncle K was very soft on crime.
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Off Topic: Do you ever feel?
Do you ever feel so hurt, so devastated, that you want to lay down, pull a blanket over your head and sleep for a week? How is it possible for us empaths to accept maltreatment and damage from those people who should love us, without collapsing into a puddle of heart-broken goo?
Without naming my relation, I’ve been driven to my knees by his recent insults over our governmental differences. How in the world can a disparity between political parties drive such a division between loving relatives?
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Ode to Delusional DisneyDad
The Disney Dad and his Fantasyland
He swings open the gates, the circus begins,
A kingdom of chaos, where guilt always wins.
Cotton candy bribes, rollercoaster highs,
Hiding the mess behind carnival lies.
His kids, his queens, their crown demands,
Little tyrants with sticky hands.
No rules, no chores, no need to grow,
Daddy's wallet makes the world their show.
And then there's the ex, the puppet string queen,
Pulling him back where she's already been.
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Disneyland Parents and Boundaries
When Disneyland parents rightfully set ONE small one-time boundary against their perpetually demanding ex or spawns then act like they found the cure to cancer
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Tigers don’t change their stripes
StepTalkers,
I really have had it dawn on me that our SKs are most likely already out the womb who they are. Research and experience implies such as well. Yes, the good old nature vs nurture. Both are important and contributory. Of course, certain circumstances and environments can further shape a person, but what differentiates the twin study where one twin grew up to become a millionaire, successful with a loving family, and the other an impoverished drug addict following in his father's footsteps.
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Kids and Sports and sharing their time
I have found this to be a blessing and a curse. My SS17 is in his senior year of high school and since his summer of freshman year I have been watching him play basketball. I have not missed a single game, except 1 when I was sick. I love this boy and I love watching him play. It's been amazing to see the other kids on his team grow and play as well. Part of the enjoyment and pleasure behind it stems from a joyful and peaceful environment. His bio mom and extended family on her side are all great! We can sit together and chat at games. We can grab food afterward.
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O/T Happy birthday #61 to me.
Yesterday I passed 60. I still don't feel any different than I did when I turned 18 until I look at the waist size on my 501s after the stiff and achy transition out of bed every AM. Fortunately, a warm shower akes care of that and I get back to as my bride says "being my usual 13yo PITA". And the white bearded silver haired guy looking back at me in the mirror can't possibly be me.
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DH’s fee-fees are hurt because of the Skids’ Indifference
Has anyone else experienced this? Where your DH gets crabby, moody, and down because his kids have fully embraced their Mothership’s side and completely cut him off because of PAS?
In the mornings before work, he’s short with me—not his usual cheerful self. It’s like he’s carrying all this sadness and taking it out on me, whether he realizes it or not.
O/T: ADD and/or Dementia--and overwhelmed
The one (big) reason this might actually be "on" topic is that I have always wondered if DH's untreated ADD/ADHD has been a major reason for so many issues with his former family NOT being handled back in the day. We have been in a place for a while now where he has compartmentalized, and that has seemed to work. As you all know, he sees his kids offsite. I am fully disengaged. But I can't help wondering if he would have been thinking more clearly back in the day, some of the turmoil and suffering would have been alleviated.
Skid’s Golden Calf – Photos of the First Failed Family
Looks like they’re all reading straight from the Toxic Skid Playbook—same script, same nonsense.
I’m writing this because of MorningMia’s post, The dysfunctional theme/fantasy of SD's life
The dysfunctional theme/fantasy of SD's life – The Problem - Why do they do this?