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Wish she'd go back into her hole!

ETexasMom's picture

I guess MSD finally realized excluding me from things wasn't working in her favor. After DH's birthday party where she basically sat in the living room and pouted the whole time she sent me a friend's request on Facebook. I accepted just strictly because I didn't want her to turn her bad behavior back on me saying I was excluding her.

Anyway ever since then she had liked every single thing I post and trying to be way to friendly. She's being way to nice! I give it 3 months tops before she freaks out about something again. Honestly I'm being optimistic with that. I'm betting more like Father's Day. DH has been a homebody and doesn't want to go anywhere lately. I asked what he wanted to do for Father's day he said sit around the house. I'm betting if he doesn't go to her and expects her to come to our house she will freak out and blame me like usual.

Should be interesting to see how this works out. It's kind of funny to watch her chase her tail now that her excluding me from all family functions ended up DH never attending anything because he hates to go alone.

Acratopotes's picture

Restrict her on FB, she should not be able to see everything you do and post, this way she can't comment on most and she can't hurt you....

just some small privacy setting to keep boundaries.,

I will never allow Aergia on my FB - she complained last night to SO about it, he confronted me, I simply laughed and said - why does she want to be my FB friend ? I'm an adult she's not, I don't even have my own kid as a FB friend...

sammigirl's picture

You can "unfollow" her and ignore her "likes". I do that with people that I have disengaged from, because they would post things that I didn't want to read. I make sure that I always post positive things about our life. I never put any personal posts nor jokes on FB. I hate passive aggression.

My SD and SGD (mother/daughter) only know how to use passive aggression, because they are not smart enough to act like adults. They are like little cute ducks; they paddle on still waters while stirring the muddy water underneath the calm surface. They love drama. Therefore, I blocked them from all of my social media; I did that 8 years ago. They hate me more every day, because I have successfully disengaged from them and their lives. Don't know what they do, don't care, and never ask.

Like your SD, they have tried to make "friends" with me. I don't verbally engage with them on these issues, I just stay silent and never give them the time of day. If I let them back in my life, it will be the same as before; I've watched both of them in action.

SD has even made enemies with her own son (our GS) and his family. SD and SGD are drama queens and have burned many bridges with people in their lives. I don't take it personal, but won't be mistreated by them ever again. They visit DH when they wish. My DH is also a home body; but when they come to visit him, I NEVER alter my schedule and I don't hostess them; in fact I am cold to them and treat them as if they were neighbors down the street, not friends or family.

You can leave your SD as a friend on your FB, but I would set your FB to NOT receive her information. If she gives you problems, block her and never re-friend her.

Hang in there with your disengagement.