How do you deal with Holidays with adult kids and step kids
So after the year MSD decided me and my children weren't invited to Christmas Dh and I decided that we would from then on stay home. All the kids who want to see us on Christmas can come see us at our house. Works great for mine they come and go as their schedule allows with their in laws and BF's family but his kids don't come. They are under the belief that he is supposed to go to them.
So my question is how do you deal with holidays with adult children in a blended family? Together we have 9 kids!!! All but two are adults and moved off. Not fair for us to go to one kids house and skip the rest and our children don't get along well enough to want to travel to their step siblings house.
Is it unfair to just stay home and tell them to come and go on holidays as they want? What does everyone else do?