I posted on the general forum but had spelling errrors and could not fix them. Update to last post about BF getting along with DS and BM trying to break us up over the years. BM has also been telling DS that I am going to give everyone Coronavirus since I’m a nurse.
Shortly after that post, BM told BF that he was no longer allowed to see DS. BM stated that he will only see DS if he leaves me; as it is too risky due to me being a nurse and Coronavirus. BF went to get DS from school and BM showed up and told him he will never see DS unless he leaves me; as it is too risky due to me being a nurse and Coronavirus. BM attacked him and next thing I know he got arrested.
BM now won’t allow BF to see DS (Only if he leaves me…In case you haven’t read my posts I have never met her and have no contact with DS). She is not responding to lawyers and the pretrial is not until March due to Coronavirus. She told mutual friends of theirs that she won’t ever let him see son because of me giving them Coronavirus. BF is devastated. I have suggested that we break up so he can see DS, but he and therapist disagree (As she broke up a previous relationship).
She is also talking about suing me if they get Coronavirus. I get tested once a week and have been negative each time. I have seen other BMs post this on other boards (This meaning compliants of SM being nurses and coronavirus) and getting kudos from other posters. I am not a SM. I posted on another board and was chastised, I was told that I am “trying to win” and “Shouldn’t be hanging around anyone” during the pandemic.
Also, I recently came into an inheritance and have been house hunting. I have decided to get something for me and my kids ONLY as I cannot trust BM/DS. I know this bothers him but I have to protect myself. She randomly shows up at his place (Prior arrest) and I have made it VERY CLEAR that if she shows up at my door she will get dragged away in handcuffs…. Apparently DS told her who I am, where I work, where I live, what I drive, ect. This whole time I was led to believe she knew nothing about me (BF claims he “forgot” to tell me that she knew E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G!!!!)
So this is where I am at….