I truly feel like my husband's ex wife is certified crazy. The things she does is jaw dropping. She's obsessed with the children like....obsessed. She can't handle not speaking to them for more than a few hours. She has to be at every single game, doctor of dentist appointments that my husband takes them to even if it's just a routine cleaning. She panics about everything and expects my husbabd to give into her unreasonable requests (which he doesn't but it's still a lot to deal with)
Stepson was having groin pain. DH takes him to urgent care and keeps her know. They say it's a hernia. DH let's her know and tell her he will update her in a bit. SS is starving at this point. So as DH is driving she is texting him 30 times saying he needs to take him to the emergency room. At dinner DH is trying to evaluate SS's pain level all the while she is calling and texting constantly (they are only suppose to be communicating on OFW) at this point she starts texting me saying DH is not communicating about SS health. I told her thaf DH and SS are at dinner and DH will update her as soon as they are settled. She kept texting me, I ignored her. She kept texting and calling DH (mind you this is in a span of 30-40 minutes) when he is done talking to SS they decide an ER visit is in order. SS was in a lot of pain. DH OFW's her a messages and let's her know. She drives in the parking lot like a lunatic runs over to SS and is panicking. They get out of the ER and they come home. SS rests yesterday but asks DH if he can go watch him baseball team today and DH says of course. HCBM shows up livid that DH has not given her minute by minute details of how SS is doing. Mind you SS is almost 12 and can talk to mom. DH does not for any reason need to communicate with her but she needs her supply sk desperately tries to get him to talk to her. He walks away and she's yelling "don't you walk away from me" DH turns around and tells her she's being inappropriate and he will let her know if there are any emergencies. She's flipping out saying his health IS an emergency and how he has to call her in an emergency snd blah blah blah. DH ignored her.
I know people say just ignore her but WTF? This stufff is REALLY HARD to ignore. She's batshit and makes scenes all the time. DH tried his best to both try to ignore her as best he could but also try to not get her going because she will make him look bad in public. Trust me. She will. Is it reasonable to ask the courts that they not be in the sand place for things? She uses baseball games for a platform to try and engage with DH and we are both sick of it.