Well, I want you to know that two weeks ago my oldest stepdaughter that was the meanest to me sent me a random text message with a picture of her daughter. No words. Just the pic. I simply deleted it. Tonight she put my hubby and I on a group text asking us if we had seen a certain movie yet. I deleted it. I have not responded in any way and just try to keep in mind that I don't need to tell her I'm disengaged. I think when she sees my no response, hopefully that will be a pretty damn big hint. I'm still angry but I feel like I'm coping better. She wants to act like nothing ever happened and she didn't treat me like shit but that's not going to happen. I'm not going to be the idiot pushover anymore.