Lack of privacy living with adult SD
Surely I can't be the only one going through this foolishness. I live with DH and SD(26) and when I want private time alone I go in our bedroom and close the door . . it's my own private space. If I do this every night of the week, what's the big deal I'm an adult? I'm minding my own business and not bothering anyone.
DH feels that I'm isolating myself from him and SD and it hurts his feelings. He acts like SD is 5 and I need to spend time playing with her or nuturing her which is ridiculous BS. She also spends alot of time behind her closed bedroom door. I've explained to him that adults need privacy and space and as long as she's in the house we really don't have privacy because we never know when her bf or gf will drop by. And she's nosey to boot.
But he wants to pretend we're one big happy family. It's bad enough we no longer have a sex life because she's always here, and now my moronic DH wants me to leave the door open every night like we're the Waltons or something. WTF, it's not going to happen.
How have others dealt with privacy issues with adult steps living at home?