Pathetic SD (28) still harboring anger after moving out
It's been a while since I've posted, back story . .married about 4 years ago, moved in w/DH and SD (then 25) she made my life a living hell. She moved out a year ago, and got married back in May. We really don't have a relationship . . other than me being cordial when she's comes for a visit, or if I see her at my in-laws. When DH goes to visit . .he goes alone . .period. I can't pretend that we're best of friends when I was treated like a piece of s!@. I forgive her, but I don't have to be bothered because . . . when someone shows you who they are . . believe them the first time.
Now that SD has moved on, when my DH calls or texts her, she won't return the call or text until weeks later. DH gets sad and sappy and keeps calling . .practically beggging SD to call him back. It's pathetic. Once he even called her fiance to ask him to have her call. I put my foot down and told him not to call anymore and allow her to call him back.
This is the princess that he held on a pedestal. It takes 2 minutes to send a text . . and she's not that busy . . nobody is . . especially when it comes to your parents. I believe she's doing this as a sick attempt to intentionally hurt his feelings . .and it's working. Why can't he see this? It's disrespectful, hurtful and mean spirited. I think she's still angry that she had to move out . . . at the ripe age of 27. Has anyone else dealt with this type of foolishness?