This House is more my kids than yours
I have been married to my new husband for going on 4 years now. He has a 20 year old son and a 19 year old son who both live with their mother 5 mins away.
When I married my husband I gave up my home (which I rented) and moved into his home (which he was buying). When he was married to his first wife he, the ex-wife and the 2 boys lived there. When they divorced the ex-wife and 2 boys left house. My name was never put on the mortgage and/or paperwork. House is 100% in his name which I am TOTALLY fine with and that has never even been an issue.
Due to a fight we are having about his two adult son's coming over every day (with or without a car load of their friends, multiple times everyday, to eat, wash their vehicles, do laundry, swim, or whatever, he said to me last night "this house is more my kids house than it is yours".
I have always said from day 1 that I would NEVER EVER try and take any assets of the home should we ever happen to divorce. He house is his and I would walk away from that part. That being said, we are married and I live in the house (because I gave up my own roof when we married) and I consider it our home as a married couple. Thus, the statement he made to me last night about "this house is more my kids house than it is yours" greatly offends me.