Another question - Am I obligated to go visit DH's inlaws?
After all the disrespect that DH has shown me this past week I don't feel a whit like going to see his parents and siblings with him tomorrow. Plus SD will be there which will mean that I'm going to be ignored and/or disrespected. I don't want to go but I'm concerned about BD who actually didn't want to go a few days ago but now has said she wants to go. I don't want her to feel in the middle of things or know that DH and I are at odds as its very upsetting to her. But what do I say to her without throwing DH under the bus? Should I feign being ill and tell her I'm staying home and she can either go with DH or stay home as well? I'm so mad at DH for enmeshing SD and I defintiely don't want to do that to BD as well.