Using the "WE" word when he means him and his ex
To cut a long story short, FDH and his Ex have rallied their antagonism and are emailing, texting again about their kids. SD15 caught having sex and lying about it with an inappropriate 17 year old. SD11 failing all grades. So these kids are clearly in crisis and instead of battling through the courts they are finally uniting and trying to help their mutual kids. My problem is that FDH has started to use the "WE" word again when talking of him and her in relation to the kids. Last night we were cuddling and about to be intimate and he "we'd" me and didnt mean me and him. What a turn off I explained to him how hurtful it is for me to hear "we" when he means him and his ex, and not us. Am I being over sensitive? I have posted on here before that I fear my FDH has a love/hate relationship with his ex. I value myself way too much to stay with a man who puts me third (kids, ex, then me). What do you guys think? Thank you!