Ok,so BM was not successfull with alienating the skids from FDH as much as she would like. Her efforts have turned to alienating me from the skids. I now call it Girlfriend Alienation Syndrome (GAS). We are engaged to be married but frankly my FDH is on probation due to what I continue to see as his lack of support for me and his tendency to put skids AND BM over me. This weekend more craziness.
- Skids don't want me doing their laundry and instead handed the dirty clothes to FDH, who immediately goes and does it.
- Skids don't want to eat anything I cook and ask at every meal who cooked this, then pick out the pieces that FDH cooked. (Sometimes he will prepare the meat, and me the sides)
- Found SD15 going through my closet again, FDH says she is just curious.
- SS11 rounded up the extra new tubes of toothpaste and soap to bring back to BM's with him. FDH ignored my question as to why and said "just leave it".
- FDH continues to daily text back and forth with his ex of 8 years and insists its necessary as they are only communicating about the skids.
- Glares and sullen comments to me all the time. We previously had a great relationship.
- Won't use the lovely bedding I bought for them, insist on using throws and blankets from the house FDH had before we moved in together.
Seems to be like its GAS and very toxic.