Blog hog... DH did it again
SD calls DH. She is going to the ER. Can he pick up SGD. Of course, we are not a we then. He says yes. He is thinking of picking up DD then SGD. I shut that down, I picked DD up, then he left to get SGD. 15 mins later he is home, with SGD. SDs best friend who DH hates is living with them. SGD made the comment he could watch her if daddy (she is 11 and this is her SF!!!) isn't home. DH said no, he can't. Brought her here. Called SSILto make sure he was home first before taking SGD home.
I do not want SGD around my kids. I don't want her around my pets. But even after he flips out on me about how "we" need to be a "we" and make desisions together this apparently only applies to my kids. And what he wants with my kids. There is no "we" with SGD or SD. But that is a whatever, the only thing.... Keep SGD away from my kids.
I also really get upset (I have keep my mouth shut on this, so far) that DH over rides SD to SGD. If she lets her best friend watch SGD then DH needs to keep his mouth shut talking to SGD. The only conversation needs to take place between SD and SGD. He doesn't see it, but SGD was just given a tool. Either to get back at SD... Papa, mommy had best friend watch me. Or against SD... Well, papa doesn't think I have to listen to him. She does and has played these games before.
Plus, SD is doing really good. She takes care of the kids. She has been doing great. And DH will NOT give her any credit. All he was asked to do was pick up and drop off SGD. Sorry, he gave up control. Leave it be.