Off topic but need to Vent about DH
Ok I work as a nurse at a VERY busy hospital. Along with COVID we are very short staffed. I've been mandated to work all kinds of crazy hours. Days,evenings,NIGHTS and weekends.
When COVID first started DH was pretty good about helping more around the house since I was working more and he was working from home. This lasted ONE week. Yes I asked and yes I made a list for him. Still he would say he was to busy with work to get things done. Of course all his "outdoor projects" got done somehow.
Anyways this past week has been crazy. I'm on my second overnight plus working days so I sleep when I can. When I got home this morning from work I asked DH to water my garden and vacuum. Well when I got up at 2pm DH was in pissy mood.
It started when I sat on the chair and said "oh god"( hey I've worked all night and tired) DH Immediately snapped in NOT a nice caring way and said to me "what's wrong".
Then to come to find out House not vacuumed and garden not watered. DH snapped at me "who cares about the garden you are the one who wanted it" when I told him my garden was wilted from not being watered.
He started to vacuum slamming the vacuum around and Kicking/throwing things out of the way complaining about junk being in the way.
I started to cry as a Combination of being tired from working and DH being a dick. Oh course this just Agitates DH more.
Now add we get the step brat for the weekend. At least I'll be working part of it. DH whole Demeanor will change when the brat comes over. DH will be upbeat laughing asking SS about his week and what he would like to do.
So sorry I'm so tired and Frustrated I had to vent