SS sinks deeper
previously: suicidal ideation, lgbtq confused, hospitals, stopped meds, started pot. Explosive, unpredictable, angry. BPD potential diagnosis. Screaming battles with BPD mom.
now add: skipping school, Juul, drinking. Kicking a hole in his BMs wall.
i no longer discuss thus with DH. He seems to have accepted my stance on banning SS from my house until he’s in a healthy path. I got this new info today. No calls to Drs or in patent facilities have happened even though our therapist friend suggested this approach to the parents 2 months ago, and I sent DH emails of Drs and facilities 1 month ago.
all I replied was, it won’t get better until you guys do something different, he can’t fix this on his own.
That was it. So glad I didn’t cave. DH is asking me about a Super Bowl party. In front of DS and younger SS. I told him in private I don’t want the same stress I had at Xmas party. He’s not taking the hint. I’m going to have to tell him if he wants to have a party, with SS17 won’t be here, or DS and I won’t be here. SS is getting worse and now drinking. I will not take risks and hope for the best.