Bg: s/o and bm have tried for 4 years to have 50/50. We usually ended up with sd due to bm wanting to go out. Even with that s/o was giving her $200 a month to help her out, he did this for 2 years. They had no co.
Bm applied for foodstamps. Claimed bf did not help her or have ad. State took him to court. Bm stated in court they had their own areangment.they asked if she wanted to seek cs. She stated no it was not needed. He was ordered to pay no cs, just add sd to his insurance. When leaving bm said ill still need you to give me money. He said that she should have said something in court and he stops paying her. We continued to have sd majority time.
A few months later, bm gets a new man (#3 in 4 years) at the end of the school year she tells s/o she is noving an hour and a half away, taking sd and he can have every other weekend. He of course says absolutly not as he was getting 4 or more days a week. She says fine, you keep her for the school weekand ill have weekends and school breaks, so long as you do not go after me for cs, anything he wanted she just wanted to move in with new man.
Thats been the schedule this whole year. Sd is here 4 nughts a week and goes to bms friday sat sunday. After 2 months of this bm said she didnt get to see her enough because she worked the nights she was supposed to have sd so sd was with daycare except for 1 day of her visitation. S/o told her too bad, but in summer you can have her 4 and he would take 3.
I check bms facebook sometimes , mostly because she is a trainwreck and i find it amusing to see her playing moty when she will not even go to conferences or drs.
Last night i find a woah is ne post because she is prego and she says she is planning on quitting her fulltime job to stay at home with baby and is planning on finding a school around her for sd.
Umm what!? She has said nothing to s/o. I looked at the school ratings and she is in a 2 of 10 elementary area and we are in a 10/10. Sd is super book smart thiugh delayed and is in an accellerated thing in her class to keep her learning.
S/o is planning to speak to bm.
Is this school year status quo? If they went to court which i imagine they will because she seems to think she is going to pull sd out of the district.
The last c/o only stated 50/50 and if she takes sd 50/50 isn't possible. I drive sd 30 min every morning to keep her in the same school so bm could pick up ob fridays and drop off mon without adding another 30 min to the drive.
I am so furious this bitch thinks she is privileged enough to stay at home and take sd away solely to try to get cs. Ill leave s/o and go for cs myself before i ever have to pay more in household expenses to cover s/o for that lazy bitch to get money for a kid she doesnt really want.
Ive had problems with s/o and if any of our house money that we do not directly spend on sd anyway goes to that cunt it may just be the end.
Any money he would pay we are certain will not go to sd. She didnt buy sd clothes for years, however her nails and hair were alwaaays done and she had like 6 pets. If you cant feed/clothe your kid you shouldnt have pets.