BM not following C/O AGAIN
Can S/O hold BM in contempt for not following the custody agreement? I've looked it up online but I'm not sure if you're only allowed to hold someone in contempt if they're violating an order from the court. BM and S/O agreed upon custody during the mediation of their divorce. The current agreement is SD lives with S/O full time and BM is supposed to take her EOW. Two days during the week if SD is going to be spending the weekend with S/O and one day during the week if SD is going to be spending the weekend with BM. BM NEVER takes SD during the week no matter whose weekend it is and she constantly flakes on her weekends with SD.
BM recently asked S/O for extra time with SD (which is a joke because she can barely handle EOW) and S/O agreed. She really only wanted to switch weekends because she wanted to have her birthday weekend off but she thought that S/O wouldn't say yes to keeping her three weeks in a row. So instead of asking him she asked to keep SD for three weeks in a row so that it worked out that her birthday weekend would be free. What ended up happening was she kept SD for one full weekend the following weekend she was supposed to take SD Friday-Sun. She flaked Friday but took SD Saturday and then called S/O to take her back Sun morning instead of night and that she would take SD for her BD weekend after all because her plans got cancelled BUT she'd only take her Friday evening to Saturday at 2pm. Friday comes and BM calls S/O in the morning apparently she went out the night before got drunk and into a fight with someone she thought was her friend. She got punched in the face and kicked out of a moving car too *mega eye roll*. First she said she'd take SD later in the evening instead of the morning but she called S/O around the time he was supposed to drop S/O off and flaked all together. She claimed she would take her during this week but we're not holding our breath and she has no plans to take her for this weekend.
It's not a one time deal she does this constantly. Last time she was sick and she's used that excuse multiple times. She even flaked once because she got in a fight with her now ex-fiancé. What can S/O do about this, if anything?