step daughter is pregnant what’s my title?
Hi so me and my fiancé are due to get married next April so the kids aren't officially my step kids until then. But anyways I've been working very hard with building relationships with SS and SD together and separate. But they never refer to me as the step mum. If their friends ask where they are they just say "at dads".
so we have just found out SD is pregnant. She's going for a scan on Sunday, but I've been told to not message her until after the scan to say congratulations.
Her mum has me blocked on all social media's and wants nothing to do with me but suddenly invites me to a party with ALL family members attending. I don't plan to go but now that she's pregnant she's going to us it as a gender reveal party. But what is my role to this baby? How do I even dare to ask? I don't want to assume that I could be a nana (at the age of 33) and how do I spoil my "grand baby" without upsetting my SD mum. I don't feel like I in a position to talk to anyone about this. I tried to talk to my family but they just get distracted with my niece. And my fiancé doesn't want to talk about it. Am I being selfish in thinking all this. Or do I just put up and shut up and keep my mouth shut and opinions to myself