All has been somewhat quiet the last couple of weeks.  DH never changed his hours and ss14 did finally go an hour north to move in with BM.  DH unenrolled ss from school on 2/14.  SS14 stayed with his grandparents here the rest of the week and went to BM's that weekend.  SS14 is now supposed to be on an EOWE rotation with DH in which DH will stay with his parents while visiting.  This makes me happy because I keep ds7 and I dont worry about ss14 coming here or ds7 going there unsupervised.  I went out with my sister, my dd20 and an old friend last week.  OMG it was so fun!  I will definatly have to do that again!

Today, DH comes in and asks where ss14's birth certificate was.  I couldnt understand why he wanted the birth certificate...it was such a random request from him.  Turns out, BM still has not enrolled ss14 in school and desperatly needs it to enroll him.  The kid has now missed 25 days of school this year (unexcused).  The kid already failed Kindy and now he is going to fail 8th grade.  This kid is totally going to age out of school instead of graduating.  I know where all the kid's BC are and can easily find it.  BUt, I do remember the aggravation of getting that BC and SS card...an entire day of vital records office because BM refused to get a copy for DH.  I am tempted to suddenly not being able to find it for them.  I know it is petty.  Way petty.  I dont care.  I will have to think on this for a while.  What would you do?