BM pulled SS12 out of private school
...without talking to anyone about it.
I dropped Ss12 off at his BM's house the night before school started. I could tell BM & her husband had been drinking that night so I told SS12 to make sure to call me if he needed a ride to school in the morning (in case she was too hungover to take him). Instead I got a call from the principal of the private school stating that Bm was un-enrolling Ss12. He asked if this was correct because that was the first time he'd ever even heard from BM -- she had been completely unenvollved with that school the previous year.
DH & I enrolled SS12 in private school last year for the 20-21 school year, partially because of saftey during the pandemic, but also because their education system is way better than that of the public schools in our town. This school doesn't offer a bus so BM was very against this school because we have to drive to drop him off/pick him up everyday. We took on that responsibility as well as FULL financial responsibility so she would agree to allow him to go to that school.
Turns out, yep, she unenrolled him in that private school and put him in public school without even speaking a word to Dh about it. DH already paid money, including enrollment fees and tuition to the private school. All about what she wanted, no one else.
I guess my question is: is this even legal? We had her permission to put him in the private school, she didn't have DH's to pull him out. DH has been considering going to court lately because we'd like to move out of state and she won't allow SS12 to go with us, even though he really wants to. So now this woman is dictating my life (as far as wether I have to continue to live in this state) and I can't do anything about it!!
Besides the fact that she's was recently ballsy enough to tell DH "I will always love you", she's constantly making pathetic attempts to reach for him and this is her one last grasp at control.