Does this qualify for PA?
SS12 goes to a therapist once a month for a mood disorder. BM and DH go in together and talk to the therapist without SS12 about how things are going with SS12 then he goes in alone without the parents. DH just found out( from older SS16) BM has been going back and telling SS12 that all DH does is complain about SS12 to the therapist and she spends the whole time "defending" SS12. DH will bring up issues SS12 has had at school or home BUT BM makes it sound like DH never has anything good to say about him and is talking behind his back. BM will then "rehearse" with SS12 what they are going to say at these appontments and BM will tell/encourage SS this is his chance to complain about DH and Me. BM has even come up with "hand signals" for SS12 to let him know what DH brought up so SS12 will know before he goes in to talk to the therapist. For example if BM pulls her right ear that means a "school issue" was brought up. Older SS16 over heard BM coaching SS12 and told us so DH knew what to watch out for. BM does this at school meetings too.
The reason is clear. The same reason she told SS he was not biologically DH but came from a sperm donor. BM is trying to alienate SS12 from DH by making him out to be the bad guy and she's the good guy. Does this qualify for parental alienation and do you think IF we could get SS12 to tell the therapist or judge BM is doing this anything would come of it?